Most people give when asked. Some people give reluctantly and some give only when begged. That's not giving at all! Its better not to give in this way! Waiting to be asked is like asking a starving man if he needs food. Its adding insult to injury. Cant you be sensitive enough to understand someone's need without it being waved in your face? Cant you spare the needy person from losing his self-respect from being forced to ask? To give without being asked is exalted giving! 

When you can give without being asked you've arrived as human being. Being human is being humane. That's being like God. Full of love without ifs and buts. Putting others first and sharing whatever you have even if you yourself go hungry. Sounds altruistic or idealistic? Of course! How can you live without committing to a cause larger than yourself ? Being selfish is living like a small fish in a tiny tank. Giving freely is living in complete freedom, without boundaries or fetters. You'dont live in the prison of your expectations.

And in any case, why are you hoarding your belongings ? Why are you rationing your love ? Are you going to be able to take it all when you exit the world ? Isnt it better to share your wealth and your love and create happiness while you're still alive ? Start now because the next moment could well be your last!